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  • A Network of Relationships

    A Network of Relationships

    In your profession or educational journey, in your social life, in your faith community, you exist within a network of relationships. While social media now makes it relatively easy to stay connected with high school and college classmates, colleagues from old jobs, and friends from years past who moved on economically or geographically, the responsibilities of life can disconnect us emotionally. Yet, we are all living our lives with an audience. Admirers, detractors, the indifferent – our life sends a message to all.

    I am thinking about three kinds of relationships in our relationship network of life:

    Present for one chapter: If you wrote a book containing illustrations from your life, these would be the folks who were characters in only one chapter. Maybe they were heroes who came into your life for just the right moment or villains who taught you a valuable lesson, but, either way, they came into your plot line, then rode away into the sunset. They know you as the person from that moment in time, not the person you became twenty years later.

    Present for several chapters: These are the people who have grown alongside you for an extended season. Perhaps these are high school or college friends whose friendship lasted long after the diploma was granted. Perhaps these are people with whom you worked closely for a season in a job or as a volunteer in a church, then maintained a connection afterwards. They could be colleagues you see at professional conferences on a consistent basis or fellow alumni you meet at events. These relationships are valuable because you have seen each other develop over the years, staying connected through change.

    Present for most of the book: These are the relatively rare people who have stayed in your life for most of your life. Take good care of these people and honor your shared history.

    All relationships, short or long, are opportunities. “Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us.” (1 John 4:11-12)

    Be patient with people whenever you can. Be kind. Maybe you will be an inspiration to some, even as some will inspire you.

    What lessons have you learned from your network of relationships?

  • Dreams

    Dreams

    In childhood and young adulthood, dreams are a way of imagining the future you desire. These are the dreams we experience while awake, not the dreams that come to us when we sleep. The Bible has a lot to say about both kinds of dreams – the visions in our sleep and the hopes we have while awake. I have always found the verse in Joel 2:28 inspiring, “And afterward, I will pour out my Spirit on all people. Your sons and daughters will prophesy, your old men will dream dreams, your young men will see visions.”

    I have no difficulty imagining young men seeing visions, and both men and women speaking the truth. However, I am impressed with the idea of old men dreaming dreams. Too often, past a certain point of accumulating too many life experiences, people gain a practical wisdom that tells them life has limits, that mountains can be admired from afar but aren’t worth climbing. Dare I say, after too many life experiences, people can become jaded, perhaps even cynical. Dreams belong to idealists, to the young person who does not know enough to know that a goal is too hard to accomplish. Old men know better. Old men have been there, and done that. Old men know that it’s been tried before and it might not be worth trying again. (Dear friends, you can imagine this concept as gender neutral – just substitute “old people” for “old men”.)

    But perhaps the best dreams are the dreams that the experienced person dreams – a Martin Luther King, Jr. who can say, ” I have a dream,” and imagine a future like one he personally has never experienced, a world that is better, a world where the “arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends towards justice.” Such a leader can have a dream that extends beyond his own lifetime.

    Young people can dream the dreams of their own plans – who they want to become, what they want to accomplish. Older people dream dreams for all – leading beyond what has been possible to what we should believe can happen. Old men know dreams are simply blueprints for work that must be done, first by them and then by the generations to follow. God knows that He is not finished with old men – or with any of us. He can entrust a new dream to a person of any age.

    What are you dreaming about?

  • You are Here

    You are Here

    If you ever tried to find your way around a mall or an amusement park, you might have discovered one of those useful vertical maps with a drawing of stores or amusement park attractions and a helpful circle or arrow informing you that “you are here.” Once you found your current location, you could easily find your way to your next desired destination, whether it was the food court in the mall, a shoe store, or your favorite rollercoaster.

    Perhaps we can find a useful analogy for life from the “You are Here” symbol on the map of stores. To find how to get to where you would like to go next, you need to know where you are. To locate where you are on the map, it helps to know where you have traveled before reaching this point. In life, “you are here” represents a moment in time as well as a location in space.

    Feeling energized and successful? You are here thanks to the hard work and sacrifices made by you and others to get you to this point. Learn from what has worked so well in the past, add new knowledge, and move confidently towards the next location on the map of life.

    Feeling discouraged, betrayed, or disappointed? You are here thanks to choices made by you and other influential people in your life. You are here, but you do not need to stay here. Find your desired location. Figure out how you became lost until you found this map. A desirable location in life is waiting for you.

    Jesus said, “I am the way and the truth and the life.” (John 14:6) A helpful map is available to guide you on your journey. Find out where you are and then locate where you desire to be.

  • The Faith Mindset of Today’s University Students

    The Faith Mindset of Today’s University Students

    Faith may be unchanging, but each generation is influenced by the current events they experience as they become young adults. The current generation of university students have had their views on the world we live in shaped by the global pandemic, new international conflicts, and our political environment.

    Of course, each generation is also influenced by the actions of the generation before. Today’s students are taking notes on the leaders of the previous generation. To university students reading this blog, you have the right to take these notes. To those of us past our college years, let us provide the rising generation with positive examples. No one should expect perfection, but each generation should strive for the best.

  • What Do We Know About Socrates, Aristotle, and Cleopatra?

    What Do We Know About Socrates, Aristotle, and Cleopatra?

    Photos or it never happened – I left you pondering the question of what you consider strong evidence to authenticate people from antiquity. In particular, I asked what evidence do we have for the existence of Socrates, Aristotle, or Cleopatra?

    You are reading a blog post not an exhaustive history text book, so we’ll keep things simple.

    Socrates, a Greek philosopher considered the founder of Western philosophy, is authenticated by the works of his students. Socrates himself never wrote any lasting written documents. Not all the works of his students were preserved – we rely mainly on the work of two students: Plato and Xenophon.

    We know Aristotle existed by his own extensive writings. However, we know little about his life. Yet, his scholarship influenced many academic fields for centuries, from biology to meteorology to political science. Interestingly, his published works, characterized as “a river of gold” by Cicero, did not survive to modern times, although many of his lecture notes are still available.

    People still search today for a tomb or burial place for Cleopatra, the Queen of the Ptolemaic Kingdom of Egypt from 51 to 30 BC. After her death, Egypt became a province of the Roman Empire. Her image survives in various art forms, such as sculptures and minted coins.

    Nonetheless, most people do not doubt the existence of these individuals, although one never wrote lasting documents (Socrates), one had only a third of his writings survive (Aristotle), and one has a grave that has yet to be located (Cleopatra).

    Think again about what is a realistic expectation for evidence of historical figures from antiquity.

  • You Matter

    You Matter

    As of January 2022, the current world population is 7.9 billion. You are one person. The current life expectancy in the United States for a baby born in the first half 2020 is 77.3 years. Does the life of one person out of nearly 8 billion matter? What of lasting value can be accomplished in a lifespan of less than one century? More specifically, does your life matter or will your life matter?

    Stroll through a graveyard and you will realize the following:

    The world was here before you arrived, and it will go on without you. This fact is true no matter how wealthy you are or how influential you have been in life. The birth and death dates on a gravestone attest to this truth.

    You matter to your friends and family. Although the world will go on without you, you are irreplaceable. You are genetically unique (unless, of course, you are an identical twin). Your life experiences and your choices based on those experiences are unique (true even for identical twins). What you have to offer the world in the dash between the date of your birth and the date of your death is unique. You are valuable not because you are the smartest person in the room, the fastest runner in the race, or the richest person in town. You are valuable just as you are – with your strengths and your limitations, your courage and your doubts, your triumphs and your mistakes.

    From a spiritual perspective, God loves you and values you. Read 1 John 4:7-12.

    What will do today to live out your purpose?

  • Photos or It Never Happened

    Photos or It Never Happened

    Bought the Colossal Alaskan King crab legs and prepared them for dinner? Shook hands with the President of the United States? Climbed to the top of Mount Everest? Prove it- photos or it never happened.

    We live in the age of the luxury of instant authentication: live news feeds of ongoing tornados, videos of marriage proposals, and photos to prove you met with your friends in a fancy local restaurant.

    You expect me to believe that Jesus walked on the earth, that Moses once held a stone tablet of commandments, and a tree of life once grew in a place called the Garden of Eden – where are the photos, what evidence exists?

    How do we authenticate events that occurred in antiquity?

    I visited my local museum and saw dinosaur bones. If it weren’t for museum rules to the contrary, I could have touched them. Ancient data made accessible in modern times.

    Should I expect to find a fossilized tree of life buried somewhere in the heart of Africa? If no one ever finds one, does this disprove the Bible?

    What are fair expectations for authenticating Biblical people and events?

    First, let’s consider how historians examine evidence about the past. Historians differentiate between primary and secondary sources. Primary sources are evidence created by people who experienced the event. For example, a government record from the time of the event or a letter written by a person who saw an event happen is a primary source. In the Bible, parts of the gospel of Luke and gospel of Matthew are primary sources as Luke and Matthew witnessed the events firsthand. The letters of the Apostle Paul to the Corinthians, Colossians, Ephesians, Philippians, etc. are primary sources. Biblical texts written in the original language are preferred to translations.

    Secondary sources are created after the event by people who were not part of the actual event. A textbook is an example of a secondary source. Secondary sources often offer analysis of the event and integrate the event into an overall historical context.

    Consider scholarly figures of antiquity. What evidence do we have for the existence of Socrates, Aristotle, or Cleopatra? The approach we use for these scholarly figures is the one we should use to authenticate Biblical people and events. Events that happened centuries before our own birth can feel distant and perhaps even unimportant. However, the people of antiquity laid the foundation of knowledge that we build upon today.

    What do you consider strong evidence to authenticate people from antiquity?

  • 21st Century Ministry: Pulpits and Prayer Life

    21st Century Ministry: Pulpits and Prayer Life

    More than twenty years ago, when I was training to become a minister shortly after I obtained my doctoral degree from Harvard University, I learned an important concept still applicable today. In preparing a sermon to preach, the minister studies in two ways: one way to prepare the sermon, the other to prepare the preacher. The key to successful sermon preparation is being able to distinguish the two different types of content.

    In our highly public world where privacy is rare, it is far too easy to forget that some insights and experiences are meant to prepare you as a person, not as a professional. While many personal spiritual insights and life experiences make for great sermon illustrations for those in the ministry, sometimes an insight or experience serves to quietly strengthen your own faith. This moment is meant for your prayer life, not your pulpit life. You can take your strengthened faith into the pulpit, but cherish the experience and treasure it in the domain of your prayer life.

    If you are a minister, your pulpit life is on display, going out to an unknown audience on Facebook or perhaps even archived on YouTube. Thus, when time is short, it is easy to pour all your time into the public part of sermon preparation. However, it’s the unseen prayer life preparation that sustains ministry and preserves the health of the minister. Take care of what others do not see, and you’ll be better prepared to minister where others do see.

    In what ways do you prepare for public ministry?

  • Thoughts for the New Year

    Thoughts for the New Year

    A new year brings new opportunities for achievements, for joy, for receiving blessings and bestowing blessings on others (Psalms 126). For many people, 2020 was a difficult year, and 2021 brings the promise of a better future.

    The sun sets on New Year’s Eve and rises on New Year’s Day, and one year turns into another, with the new day no different than the one before. However, the turning of the year on our calendars gives us the impetus to make changes, improvements, and new choices. Here are some suggestions:

    1. ESTABLISH routines/rituals that will incrementally move you in the direction of your goals. This principle works equal well in the areas of spirituality, health, and wealth. For example, in the areas of spirituality and health, establish a regular sleep schedule and set aside time each morning for prayer, exercise, and a calm start to your day. In the area of wealth, save and invest a portion of your income. Better to start with small, regular amounts than none at all.
    2. EDIT aspects of your life that detract from your well-being. Lovingly set boundaries with people who demean your dreams, work against your goals, and speak negatively about you to others.
    3. ELIMINATE sources of frustration when possible. Replace the error-prone software, fix broken equipment, organize your wardrobe, and create systems to support your daily activities.

    The specific changes and upgrades will vary with each individual, but the concepts are universal. Finally, while making improvements in the temporal realm, keep your eyes on what is eternal (Psalms 16:11).

  • Holiday Blessings

    Holiday Blessings

    Today marks the end of the Thanksgiving holiday weekend in the United States. In a world that has experienced the challenges of a pandemic this year, words like thankful, grateful, and blessed may seen foreign. Holidays are filled with traditions and expectations, but no one year tells the story of a holiday celebration.

    Similarly, no one year tells the story of a person’s life. Write a book and you will realize that some people have been in your life for many chapters, while others were only present for a few pages. Your life is greater than any one chapter, whether blessed with abundance or filled with sorrow. Thanksgiving is greater than the meal of any one day. I hope you had a safe and wonderful time these last few days, and found reasons to be grateful this year and across the years. For those who expected more from 2020, remember the blessings of the past and reach with hope towards the future. The very existence of a future is the greatest blessing of all.